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A most peculiar mademoiselle ([personal profile] axeslade) wrote2006-03-25 10:05 am

Let's burst all the bubbles

Last night on 20/20, they had this segment about asexuals. It was really neat, actually. There was one asexual couple who was going to get married and had decided on no sex, but once they were together awhile they started fooling around. Not full sex yet, but neither of them felt bad about it because as one guy stated 'this community isn't a place to stop and stop learning about yourself'. There was this one sex 'expert' who really pushed my buttons, though. She was talking about what was 'to blame' for asexuality. As if it were a problem that people need therapy or meds to help. Grr. Stil, the title of the story really made me happy: Sexless and Proud

[identity profile] lifebytes-yaya.livejournal.com 2006-03-25 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
wow! thanx for posting this article, it's really, really interesting!

i had a SMALL indication of what asexuality was, but this is more intriquing than i could have imagined

[identity profile] axeslade.livejournal.com 2006-03-25 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
wow! thanx for posting this article, it's really, really interesting!

Ain't it though? It was really neat watching it (bascially the same thing, with audio and visual, very little more in dialogue), though I kept yelling at that damn sex 'expert'

i had a SMALL indication of what asexuality was, but this is more intriquing than i could have imagined

I know! I've had times where I am def. asexual to a degree, like when I was going through all that shite with my one friend, but I learned a lot more about what it truly is.

[identity profile] lifebytes-yaya.livejournal.com 2006-03-26 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
wait... describe your sexuality :)

[identity profile] axeslade.livejournal.com 2006-03-26 04:22 am (UTC)(link)
lmfao. If you want to go out there, pansexual. If you want what society actually understands, bi (though leaning more towards girls most of the time). I've had my moments, though, where I go 'ya know...sex sounds REALLY overrated. If fucks up relationships, destroys people...and that's when it's consensual!'. So let's go pan/bisexual with lesbian leanings and on certain days asexual. Damn, too many labels!

[identity profile] lifebytes-yaya.livejournal.com 2006-03-27 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
awww! :) i wish i knew you in real life, everything about you is interesting and fun! plus u are uber nice!

i'm just plain ol' boring gay! haha!

[identity profile] axeslade.livejournal.com 2006-03-27 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
i'm just plain ol' boring gay! haha!

LMAO! Sometimes I wish I was 'plain ol' boring gay', I swear the labels on me, takes ten minutes to list and explain 'em all! ~_^ That's why I usually stick with bi if anyone asks, though I usually tack on the two spirited-both gender thing if people I know are dicks ask, just to confuse 'em.

[identity profile] lifebytes-yaya.livejournal.com 2006-03-27 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
haha :)

i hate when people are dicks about shit like that


it's like, dude, just go fuck yourself! ya knowww

ughhhh i hate people sometimesss