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A most peculiar mademoiselle ([personal profile] axeslade) wrote2006-07-09 06:40 pm

Chivalry really isn't dead

The Code of Chivalry Isn't Just For Boys t-shirt

I want this shirt so badly. I also want the men's Chivalry Today t-shirt to give to Davan. Though he'd deny it somewhat, he lives up to the Seven Knightly virtues (below, courtesy of Chivalry Today) more than any other guy I know besides men in fiction.


The Seven Knightly Virtues

Courage

More than bravado or bluster, today’s knight in shining armor must have the courage of the heart necessary to undertake tasks which are difficult, tedious or unglamorous, and to graciously accept the sacrifices involved.



Justice

A knight in shining armor holds him- or herself to the highest standard of behavior, and knows that “fudging” on the little rules weakens the fabric of society for everyone.



Mercy

Words and attitudes can be painful weapons in the modern world, which is why a knight in shining armor exercises mercy in his or her dealings with others, creating a sense of peace and community, rather than engendering hostility and antagonism.



Generosity

Sharing what’s valuable in life means not just giving away material goods, but also time, attention, wisdom and energy — the things that create a strong, rich and diverse community.



Faith

In the code of chivalry, “faith” means trust and integrity, and a knight in shining armor is always faithful to his or her promises, no matter how big or small they may be.



Nobility

Although this word is sometimes confused with “entitlement” or “snobbishness,” in the code of chivalry it conveys the importance of upholding one’s convictions at all times, especially when no one else is watching.



Hope

More than just a safety net in times of tragedy, hope is present every day in a modern knight’s positive outlook and cheerful demeanor — the shining armor that shields him or her, and inspires people all around.